朋友

从相聚 相识,到相处的朋友
从相聚 相识,到相处的朋友
往往需花一段日子来慢慢酝酿友情

可是
友情的决裂往往只需要一秒的时间
我的第一次,第二次,无数次都在网上体验了
网路入虎口啊~叹~

然后想不到原来不只我有这问题
有时我会很惋惜逝去的友情
可是..
我也做不了什么..
既然对方如此做
我也只好随波逐流了
再加上,那样的友情也没坚持下去的意义了
就无谓浪费彼此的时间来做表面上的虚伪功夫~~~

网上如虎口

近来越来越多论坛的人选择闭关不出门了

怎感觉每个人似有离开小新或论坛的趋势呢?

网上如虎口吗?网上的人说的话不能太相信吗?

之前一段日子我有类似感触..离开了论坛一段时间~

之后被某人劝了回来..就回去大家一起灌下水交流下~

那我还是静静地过我一个人的生活好了..

一举打消刚刚发芽想要出去网聚一瞄的种子~

Facebook

My facebook account has been disabled.

Just ignore it.

Maybe i can stay even better without existence of facebook.

My life remain going on without it.

So am i,before and after.

No more care on those mini games.

The only pity is i cant browse the photos in my friend list.

同事A

又一个同事A的故事

其实也不是很想写关于她的故事

只是找个地方发泄下而已吧~

用中文比较可以带出整个故事的感觉吧..


就之前的故事已说过了,

我,A,B就是常一起出外吃午餐的KAKI..

今天如同往常那样我们出外吃午餐~

我呢,原本决定了要吃板面的;但看到板面的人潮很多我就去板面而香港小吃了..

而A则跟随B一起吃鱼汤~


片刻之后

正吃着午餐的我看到B捧着杂菜饭回来

我就很诧异地问她,你不是说要去鱼汤吗?怎的???

然后她就跟我说我等等回办公室再告诉你~~

我就等到回办公室后等她的故事咯..


吃饭途中..一片沉默..

怪不习惯的...

虽然最近我也变得懒得去讲话了..

就觉得说多浪费我口水而已

然后也因为之前的一个故事..还有之后发生的几件事...



回到办公室后

B就跟我说原本她是要吃鱼汤的,然后A也跟着她一起吃鱼汤..

之后她们就一起就排队咯..

排队的那段时间,A则不停地大大声讲B的正前面的坏话..还把全部排队的人全骂进去..

就说: [B,前面的怎么排队排到那么乱啦..平时又怎么说她做东西乱ETC..]

其实队伍排得很好很整齐@@

B只跟我讲个BASIC而已..她说A还说了更多..

但是她跟我讲的只是让我大概明白而已..

然后B有尝试要她降低她的声量

可是她不理会B的劝告..反而越说越大声..

B跟我说她很尴尬...她的脑子完全是空白了好几分..

然后她借故队伍一直没进展就闪去买杂饭吃了...


难怪..我看B一脸不对劲. Hmm..

我今天也差点牵涉入其中..好险~


其实之前我也有遇过相同的情形~

就吃饭的途中,她一直向我吐苦水..

然后也讲得很大声~

我跟她讲她话中的主角正走在我们的正前头..

谁知她越讲越大声..

还说故意要讲大大声给他们听到+知道 >.<


那时的我真的不懂该如何回应~

幸好到目前为止我还没跟人杯葛

不幸中的大幸 @@


然后我一直有个困扰

就我有时真的很懒惰出外吃午餐

其实我可以叫同事帮我打包的

同事也肯帮我跟B打包的..

只是为了仁义我们就觉得不该丢下A一人..

如果我一个星期有一两餐叫我同时打包的话

我会不会很过分啊


因为之前试过几次\同事帮我多打包一份

然后刚好B因公务去了SHIPYARD..

然后只剩下A一人..

然后饭后我问她吃点什么啊

她回答说工作很忙没吃..

之后我有内疚感... @@

Kaizen

Definition of Kaizen:

Kaizen (改善, Japanese for "improvement") is a Japanese philosophy that focuses on continuous improvement throughout all aspects of life. When applied to the workplace, Kaizen activities continually improve all functions of a business, from manufacturing to management and from the CEO to the assembly line workers.[1] By improving standardized activities and processes, Kaizen aims to eliminate waste (see Lean manufacturing). Kaizen was first implemented in several Japanese businesses during the country's recovery after World War II and has since spread to businesses throughout the world.[2]

I know the word "Kaizen" since my degree studies; something related to continuous improvement. However what Kaizen I found out in my workplace real very funny. Boss want racked our brains for ideas of Kaizen weekly @@. Then the time I browse the ideas of Kaizen by other colleagues, I will read them with uncontrollable laugh. There is a gap between kaizen thinking from my understanding and the one really applied to workplace.

One of my colleague teach me a very tricky kaizen way^^. The tactic that boss told her, as she mentioned. LOL~ even an added or changes of one sentence also can treat as kaizen. Phew~ Then my that colleague prolong the ideas of Kaizen for few months. Simply put the idea at 1st week then do some modification on it & added in some other ideas throughout the months. I.e. the idea of Kaizen that can finished by one time but she intentionally put it for few months^^. How ridiculous it is. LOLZ.

Tomorrow, my forth time changes working environment in same company. Phew~ changes from one seat to another seat. This is one of the cultures of our company. Phew~ And I will be move from seat behind B to seat beside B. Feel funny bo? LOLZ.. Is it the kind of Kaizen? @@

爱情面包理论

你会如何选

有个男的朋友说..男人只要有钱..就不怕没女人了..
我问回他:可是你不懂她是真的爱你的人还是只爱你钱而已…

Relationship

Continued with above topic, I have a short discussion with someone. She mentioned that the guys in the forum are too straightforward & low EQ. Then she mentioned that most people stay in city is good in EQ. She has many friends during study life however she treats them as nodded acquaintance only. She ever doesn’t like herself that become more and more scheming as times goes on. I think I have same feeling with her. I’m quite active during my primary and secondary time. I be friend with everybody. Until now, I lazy on maintain nodding terms. Even with my colleagues, I try to shy away from close friendships. I don’t know to describe my feeling? I’m having less and less contact with my friends due to distance. And it seem like I’m the one who trying to maintain the relationship. I really feel tired on it.

Is it good to distinguish private matter and business affairs?
Is it better not having a close relationship with colleagues?

Are we become realistic (become tricky@@)?
Is it friend good to be exploited and take advantages on?
Is it friendship will deteriorate by time & distance?